Here’s something we could all stand to be reminded of from time to time: asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

But even if you know that’s true, it’s still easy to feel intimidated when you’re making a BIG ask.

Boston-based nonprofit, Strong Women, Strong Girls (SWSG), is a mentoring organization that positively impacts thousands of young girls and women across the nation.

All with just 12 full-time staff members.

Their three tier mentoring program focuses on using relationships, skills, and role models to empower girls and women to succeed as leaders of their generation. With current locations spanning Boston, Pittsburgh, and South Florida, the small team relies on support from their community to keep the organization going strong.

Using SWSG as our model, let’s take a look at the steps you need to take for your ask to come across loud and clear.

1. Take the plunge

If you want to get your contacts to donate time, money or anything else, you’re going to have to gain their trust and confidence first. A great way to do that is with a professional and attention grabbing email newsletter.

If you’re new to the email marketing scene, creating an email newsletter might seem a little daunting at first.

That’s how it seemed to FAO Schwarz Fellow, Kayla Peck, when she joined the SWSG team 9 months ago. “When I first started, I didn’t have any communication experience so I was really coming from a novice perspective,” Kayla recalls.  “Luckily, Constant Contact is really user friendly and it didn’t take me long to get a handle on it.”

Even if you’re interested in giving email marketing a try, you might still feel nervous about the time commitment.

“The biggest benefit of email marketing, from a staff perspective, is efficiency. I have a template made so it’s easy to pull together an email quickly,” Kayla explains. “I think the rest of my staff thinks it takes me a lot longer to create an email than it actually does!”

Ok, ready to jump in? Now you have to learn how to make your emails effective enough to inspire action.

2. Show off your strengths

The age-old writing mantra, “Show, don’t tell” can be applied to emails as well.

Because a lot of your contacts will be rifling through their emails quickly (and often on a small screen), it’s important that your emails are visually clear and easy to scan.

“We try to tell a story through pictures in our emails,” Kayla says. “Our emails are short, sweet, and structured so readers can get to the point quickly.”

Take a look at the email below. Using only three sentences of text, the email is effective in communicating a message to its recipient.

SWSG pic 1

3. Be proud of your organization

The biggest mistake organizations make when asking for donations is shying away from what they’re asking for.

“Every spring we hold a large event called Jump into Spring. This is our largest event of the year, so we need as much help as we can get,” Kayla explains.

“With our emails, we give them multiple opportunities to get involved. It’s important for our contacts to understand that they are a crucial part of our community and their support, whatever they are able to give,  is what keeps us going.”

SWSG pic 2

4. Make your donations page specific

In addition to making your ask prominent in your emails, it’s also a great idea to get specific in expressing why donations are important to your organization.

Let’s take a look at the explanation SWSG offers on their donations page:

Your donation goes a long way: $250 supports field trip supplies for a girl for a year, $100 supports a college mentor’s training, $50 supports a personalized coaching session for a team of 3-4 SWSG mentors, and $25 provides curriculum binders to a team of SWSG mentors. Please also consider providing long-term support through a recurring monthly gift!

These details can be a great motivator for someone on the fence about making a donation.

“We make sure to align all our language with our organization in mind,” explains Kayla. “We want anyone reading our information to feel close to our mission. We especially want them to realize and understand that they have an active and participatory role in our community.”

Ready to bring it all together? Take the plunge and follow SWSG’s lead with an ask that’s strong, proud, loud, and clear.

What’s your experience with “big asks?” What’s worked, what hasn’t worked? Tell us about it below.